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How to Say What You Mean Without Spiralling Into Shame
Christie-Lee Didovich Christie-Lee Didovich

How to Say What You Mean Without Spiralling Into Shame

Struggling to speak up without sounding "mean"? This blog breaks down how women can express their needs clearly and kindly — without spiralling into guilt, over-apologising, or shrinking. Read the 3-step guide to reclaiming your voice.

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Why You’re Not Bad at Communication—You Were Just Taught to Be Polite
Christie-Lee Didovich Christie-Lee Didovich

Why You’re Not Bad at Communication—You Were Just Taught to Be Polite

Struggling to speak up or set boundaries? You're not alone—and you're not bad at communication. Most women were simply taught to be polite instead of honest. In this blog, we unpack why people-pleasing feels safer than self-expression, how to stop shrinking yourself in conversations, and practical steps to start communicating with confidence. It's time to rebuild your voice, your boundaries, and your sense of self—one honest conversation at a time.

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What to Do When Your Boundaries Are Violated
Christie-Lee Didovich Christie-Lee Didovich

What to Do When Your Boundaries Are Violated

Ever set a boundary only to have someone completely ignore it? You’re not alone. Whether it’s a boss piling on extra work, a friend making "jokes" at your expense, or Aunt Karen commenting on your weight (again), boundary violations happen all the time. The key? Knowing how to respond without second-guessing yourself.

In this post, we’ll break down how to recognize when your boundaries are being crossed, what to say in the moment, and how to enforce consequences without feeling guilty. Because your boundaries aren’t up for debate—and it’s time people started respecting them.

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Why Communication Skills Are the Ultimate Life Hack
Christie-Lee Didovich Christie-Lee Didovich

Why Communication Skills Are the Ultimate Life Hack

Struggling to set boundaries or say what you really mean? Poor communication keeps you stuck in people-pleasing mode, second-guessing yourself, and drowning in obligations you never signed up for. In this blog, we break down why communication skills are the ultimate life hack, how they boost confidence, and how to start saying no without the guilt. Ready to master the art of clear, confident communication? Read more now!

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The Books That Changed My Life: How Reading Can Transform Your Boundaries and Self-Worth
Christie-Lee Didovich Christie-Lee Didovich

The Books That Changed My Life: How Reading Can Transform Your Boundaries and Self-Worth

Looking for books that will help you set boundaries, stop people-pleasing, and take back control of your life? In this post, I’m sharing three life-changing books that transformed my mindset around self-worth, difficult relationships, and personal growth. From Difficult People by Dr. Rebecca Ray to The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins and The War of Art by Steven Pressfield, these books provide the strategies, insights, and tough love you need to step into your power. Ready to break free from old patterns and start living authentically? Let’s dive in.

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Stop Suffering: How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty
Christie-Lee Didovich Christie-Lee Didovich

Stop Suffering: How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty

Feeling drained, frustrated, or resentful? Your lack of boundaries might be the culprit. The truth is, people treat you how you allow them to. In this blog, we’re diving into why you struggle to set boundaries, how to stop self-sabotaging, and the simple steps to reclaim your time, energy, and self-respect.

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Why Setting Boundaries Doesn’t Make You a B**ch
Christie-Lee Didovich Christie-Lee Didovich

Why Setting Boundaries Doesn’t Make You a B**ch

Tired of feeling like a b*tch every time you say no? We’re breaking the biggest myth about boundaries—they’re not mean, they’re just clear. Learn why we’ve been conditioned to feel guilty, how to set boundaries without drama, and practical scripts to help you communicate with confidence. Plus, discover why pushback from others isn’t a sign you’re doing it wrong—it’s proof you’re finally putting yourself first!

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What Are Boundaries? Stop People-Pleasing and Start Living Authentically
Christie-Lee Didovich Christie-Lee Didovich

What Are Boundaries? Stop People-Pleasing and Start Living Authentically

Discover the 5 key types of boundaries—physical, emotional, time, mental, and material—and learn how to set them with confidence. In this guide, we bust common myths about boundaries, explain why they’re essential for a healthy life, and share four practical tips to help you start today. Say goodbye to people-pleasing and hello to unapologetic self-respect!

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The Powerful Link Between Boundaries and Communication
Christie-Lee Didovich Christie-Lee Didovich

The Powerful Link Between Boundaries and Communication

Discover the essential connection between boundaries and communication. Learn why clear communication is key to setting boundaries that protect your energy, reduce resentment, and empower your relationships. Plus, get actionable tips to start expressing your needs today!

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What People Pleasing Looks Like and How to Break Free.
Christie-Lee Didovich Christie-Lee Didovich

What People Pleasing Looks Like and How to Break Free.

Tired of constantly saying “yes” when you want to say “no”? In this blog, we uncover the exhausting cycle of people pleasing, how it shows up in everyday life, and why it’s time to break free. Learn practical tips to set boundaries, reclaim your energy, and start living authentically. Plus, discover how The Good Girl’s Liberation Guide can help you stop people pleasing for good!

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